|By Happiness Ozulem Ali-
In the intricate dance of Nigerian politics, recent allegations have spotlighted Senate President Godswill Akpabio, accused by Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan of sexual harassment. In response, Akpabio’s wife, Ekaette, has publicly defended her husband, labeling the accusations as baseless. This scenario prompts a reflection on the wisdom encapsulated in the Ikwerre proverb: “A woman does not dance in the marketplace for her husband’s plight.” This saying underscores the importance of allowing individuals to address their own challenges without external interference, especially from close family members.
Senator Akpoti-Uduaghan has firmly advised Mrs. Akpabio to refrain from intervening, emphasizing that the Senate President possesses the capacity to defend himself against the allegations. She stated, “Our client believes the Senate President has the capacity to defend himself and refute any of these allegations against him.”
Another Ikwerre proverb states, “The chicken that scratches the ground should not complain when dust rises.” This highlights the inevitability of facing consequences resulting from one’s actions. In this context, if the allegations hold weight, it is imperative for the accused to confront them directly, ensuring transparency and accountability.
Furthermore, the proverb, “He who fetches ant-infested firewood invites lizards into his house,” serves as a cautionary reminder about the repercussions of one’s choices. Public figures, by virtue of their positions, are subject to scrutiny and must navigate their actions with integrity to maintain public trust.
Ekaette Akpabio’s involvement, though rooted in loyalty, risks clouding the issue. It’s essential to recognize that personal defenses from close relatives can be perceived as biased, potentially undermining the credibility of the response. Allowing the legal process to unfold without familial interference ensures that justice is served impartially.
This situation mirrors global instances where public figures faced allegations and addressed them personally, reinforcing the principle that individuals should be accountable for their actions without external intervention.
In conclusion, while the instinct to defend a loved one is natural, wisdom dictates that individuals, especially those in positions of power, should confront their challenges directly. This approach not only upholds personal integrity but also reinforces public trust in our institutions. As the Ikwerre proverbs remind us, actions have consequences, and it is the responsibility of those involved to address them head-on.
Happiness Ozulem Ali is a lecturer in the Department of Development Communication Studies, Faculty of Communication and Media Studies, Rivers State University.
Email: ali.happiness@ust.edu.ng
